May 14

From chilly Chicago to sunny Big Sandy…

Yes, the opportunity came for us to attend the Big Sandy regional family conference last week! Robert live streamed the evening sessions while I visited friends from all over and introduced them to Marilee and an ever growing/changing Sauntina. The Pendergasts hosted us during our stay and Sauntina went to sleep each evening quite worn out from playing with their four children. 🙂


My sister, Aleita, works down there at the International ALERT Academy so we squeezed in as many opportunities to visit as we possible could!


We also celebrated a lovely and restful Easter Sunday with the Pendergast Family and friends ~ Aleita, Corrie and I all wore the same colors without knowing it!


On the way home, Robert, James, Jonathan, Sauntina, Marilee and I stopped in St. Louis for the night and toured the St. Louis arch the next morning. This was my first time up there and it was quite the feeling to be over 600 feet in the air with nothing between you and the ground!


Now we are home sweet home and ready to settle back into routines again…


Apr 14

A Little Catch-up Time…

Due to three surgeries over the Christmas season, and wonderful help from my sister, Aleita, and Robert’s parents for a couple months following, we fell behind in post updates, but are blessed with good health once again and back to tackling the tasks of life. For awhile there, I wasn’t sure I’d ever have enough energy to take care of my little girls by myself, but the Lord was so kind and we are back to normal running errands, cooking, cleaning, and hosting guests! Praise the Lord for the wonderful gift of health! Here’s a little glimpse of the past few months…

Aleita, who came for an 11 day visit in early December, ended up staying 5 weeks and was mother to my two girls while I spent a week in the hospital for gallbladder surgery, then two more surgeries in the following weeks due to complications.


Discharged Christmas Eve and celebrated a quiet Christmas together. Robert managed to make a stocking for Sauntina to open!


Mom, Dad and David Staddon came to help with the girls for two weeks in January while I continued recovering. Esther often watched the girls so I could grab a nap or rest on the couch. We are so blessed to be surrounded by family and I do not take this for granted!


Jan 14

Exhort One Another

While we were home for Thanksgiving, we enjoyed spending a little time with Josh & Lisa Wilkes and their son Josiah Bradford. Josh has been a good friend for many years and I appreciate him consistently encouraging me to grow in my love for the Lord. This is important for all of us to do on a regular basis, as it says in Hebrews 3:13: “But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”


Nov 13

The Musical Snow Globe

Nov 13

Getting ready for Christmas!

With Canadian Thanksgiving behind us, and some vacation plans in the near future, we decided to decorate early so we could enjoy the wonderful Christmas traditions and joys… and watch our little girl experience these delights here at home. So up went the tree this weekend while Marilee watched from the couch! It was so much fun to see the awe and wonder on Sauntina’s face as she saw the Christmas lights on the tree and snowflakes on windows and mirrors!

Katherine came to visit for the week, bearing delicious apples from Michigan to freeze for pies and crisps during the winter!






Nov 13

Sisterly love!

Sauntina loves her new sister!



Nov 13

A Work of Grace

IMG_20131021_092805_420I was awake a lot last night. My beautiful little daughter, Marilee Grace (who turns one month old tomorrow!) seems to have been born with a nocturnal outlook on life. Pacing back and forth in the night, I marveled at the little treasure I held in my arms. There is so much that I want to tell her about the incredible love of Jesus. And there is something special that I’m looking forward to sharing with her one day about the significance of her middle name.

A Thought-provoking Discussion

I was recently reading some comments publicly posted online about Ephesians 2:8-9, which explains one of the most beautiful truths in Scripture: “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.”

One person made this statement: Works is nowhere in that scripture passage about grace, except to be excluded. Leave any other action out of grace.” From one perspective, this statement is certainly true … if, as the author probably intended, it is referring to the works of man.

But does grace involve a work of God?

The Greek word for saved in this passage is sozo: “to save, to deliver.” This is an action word! God did not stand on the shore and watch me drown in my sins–He reached down through Christ’s payment on the cross and pulled me out. By His grace He saved me.

Just an Attitude?

A definition of grace that seems to have gained quite a bit of popularity as my generation was growing up is “unmerited favor.” God’s grace certainly is unmerited! There is nothing sinful man can ever do to deserve it. But is favor a good word to use in defining it?

When I talk with people and use favor in this way, they all seem to agree with the common dictionary definition: “an attitude of approval or liking.”

This perspective was reflected in another lady’s comment posted online in the same thread: “God’s grace to all mankind is like his love…equal to all. Murderers, rapists, churchgoers, atheists all are precious and equal in his eyes. God is our Father and he never plays favorites.”

The love and mercy of God is indeed beyond comprehension, as He provided a way for man’s sin to be forgiven through the incredible sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. But is God’s grace simply this attitude of favor that He has towards sinful man? Or does it go much further than that?

… or the Power of God?

The Greek word that is translated grace is charis. Strong’s Concordance uses this statement to explain it: “the divine influence upon the heart, and its reflection in the life”. God’s grace itself is what influences our hearts towards Him and the result of that work will be visible in our lives.

Paul wrote, “By the grace of God I am what I am: and his grace which was bestowed upon me was not in vain; but I labored more abundantly than they all: yet not I, but the grace of God which was with me” (I Corinthians 15:10). God’s grace was hard at work laboring in Paul and transforming him into the likeness of Christ.

In Ephesians 3:7 we read that Paul “was made a minister, according to the gift of the grace of God given unto me by the effectual working of his power.”

Let’s go back to Ephesians 2:8-9. What was my role in this divine rescue? As it states, I simply responded “through faith”. I cannot take any credit for this because the power of God’s grace enabled me to do so, graciously giving me not only the desire to respond, but even the very ability to do so. “The grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men” (Titus 2:11).

I am convinced that a Biblical view of charis is not simply God’s kind attitude toward men, but also God’s enabling power at work in men’s hearts.

In the Mouth of Two or Three Witnesses…

We should never blindly accept what any fallible human being proposes without first searching the Scriptures to know it is true. (See Acts 17:11.) However, it is significant to note that many well-respected Bible scholars from many different backgrounds have agreed that grace is the enabling power of God. Here are a few memorable quotes:

  • John MacArthur: "Grace is the power of God to fulfill our New Covenant duties (cf. 1 Cor. 7:19), however inconsistently we obey at times. Clearly, grace does not grant permission to live in the flesh; it supplies power to live in the Spirit” (The Gospel According to Jesus).
    • John Piper: “Grace is the enabling gift of God to overcome sin. Grace is power, not just pardon” (Pleasures of God).
    • Dr. Spiros Zodhiates: “Grace is like God’s power generator, and we are like the conduits which carry His power to its intended purposes by the Holy Spirit.”
    • Westminister Confession of Faith: “When God converts a sinner and translates him into the state of grace, He freeth him from his natural bondage under sin; and, by His grace alone, enables him freely to will and to do that which is spiritually good."(Chapter IX)

Power for What?

Immediately following Ephesians 2:8-9, we have verse 10: “For by grace are ye saved through faith …. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”

Obviously, God’s grace doesn’t empower us to do what displeases God (sin). Grace enables the believer to do what pleases Him. These “good works” don’t bring salvation, salvation brings Christ into our lives to do these good works in and through us.

The result of God’s grace in the life of a believer is again mentioned in 2 Corinthians 9:8: “God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work.

God is glorified through these “good works” (see Matthew 5:16) because we cannot take any credit for them. It is Christ in us doing the work. Paul desired that God would “make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is wellpleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ; to whom be glory for ever and ever” (Hebrews 13:21).

My Prayer

My prayer tonight for Marilee Grace is that, as she grows older, she would allow God to do many wonderful things through her life for His glory by the power of His grace. “For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world” (Titus 2:11-12).

Oct 13

Little Marilee…

Here’s a few pictures of our newest adventure, sweet baby Marilee!

Latest family picture


Sauntina loves her new sister and always wants to give her kisses! When I lay Marilee on the ground to change her diaper, Sauntina either lays down on her stomach to give her a kiss or bends in half to reach down to her (oh! to be that flexible!). It’s so precious to see them together!


I’m not sure what type of dream Marilee was having here when I went to check on her yesterday…is she raising her hands in worship? Pretending to be a giant cuddly bunny? Or is she the wolf in Red Ridinghood?


Loving this new phase in life!

Oct 13

How Sweet to Hold

How sweet to hold a newborn baby, and feel the pride and joy she brings…but greater still that calm assurance ~ this child can face uncertain days because He lives!


Oct 13

Welcome, Marilee Grace!

Little Marilee Grace joined us this morning at 9:10 AM, weighing 7 lbs 1oz, and 20″ long! Mama & baby are doing well, Daddy said he’s tuckered out, and Sauntina is mesmerized by this new life!


Marilee: This is a combination of her Grandma’s names: Marilyn Kowalchuk & Donna Lee Staddon. We pray that Marilee will follow their godly examples by trusting in the Lord with all of her heart so that she can give thanks with a merry heart in every situation.

Grace: The wonderful free gift of God’s grace is often misunderstood in our day. As John MacArther wrote, “Grace does not grant permission to live in the flesh; it supplies power to live in the Spirit.” Our desire is that Marilee will allow God’s power to flow through her life as she grows in grace and in the knowledge of Him.